Giving you the whole story. My friend is having a wedding. So far she keeps tacking on much more and a lot more issues I will need to do or acquire for being a bridemaid. So far my dress, hemming, shoes, and unique bra has cost me about 320 dollars. Now she is wanting me to take my dress back to the alterations to get something completed to the train for the reception (so it doesn't sit on the floor) so I can dance in the dress. First of all, I asked her if I could change into something less difficult to wear for the reception (so i can enjoy it far better, and the dress doesn't get stepped on, ruined, dirty) and she agreed. She just took it back AND is tacking on yet another expense (which personally, I'm most likely not going to do due to the fact aside from david bridal's alterations place... i doubt any of the other places will know what to do, and how to do it properly). Not to mention for her bachelorette party she wants to eat dinner (and have us cover it)... go downtown (and have us get her drinks...)... AND hold her party. I'm not produced of cash.
And soon after she tells me all this...she also informs me... that she is cancelling the bridemaid luncheon trigger she can't afford it. Her parents are paying for everything except component of the honeymoon... I've invest around 320 dollars on becoming a bridemaid (not including the gift)... and she can't afford to treat us all to a lunch?
I mean if you look at it... 6 bridemaids... without alterations, shoes, accessories, hair, nails, makeup, and all the other issues we want for the dress... combined we've spend 1050$ on the dress itself. Add in everything plus bachelorette stuff... and she cant afford to purchase us lunch. I wouldn't care if it was at subway at this point... I think we deserve a small some thing. :(
Am I wrong to be Angry and frustrated about this.
I most likely make the most income out of all her bridemaids, and i'm having to sacrifice and do alot of hardcore budgetting for an ugly dress that will in no way be worn once more (it's not useable anywhere.)
My friend is a bridezilla, and it's stressing me out. =_=
Very best answer:
Answer by Kady
Do you get far more income from it all then your spending? Hate to say it but she is pretty selfish. I understand that she is also quite stressed because she is acquiring married! I feel that if your mad you shouldn't say it to her face proper now. It is a delicate time for her right now. She can't afford a fight. You ought to wait until after her wedding and then express every thing. I am certain she will recognize.Hope it goes much better. :)
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