I may be young but I am not a stereotypical "party guy". I have a girlfriend, whom I really like a lot. I respect her to the point of cutting excessive porn out, not gawking at other girls, or even thinking of insulting my girlfriend. I like her a lot and at the moment think she is the most appealing girl to me, personality included I had a couple of heartbreaks with girls cheating on me. I try not to control my girlfriend by letting her do what she wants even if I am uncomfortable with it,, (Her acquiring a tattoo, going out with friends, talking about exes etc) I truly do not like her talking about her exes ( physical ) because it makes me feel insecure/uncomfortable. I mean I go out with my buddies too, but nowhere near bars,dance clubs, strip clubs or anywhere possibly related to cheating/hurting her. I just thought to myself about what occurs if I was to get married. In like 10 years or so if I am obtaining married, no matter whether to my present girlfriend or an additional girl, I am nervous about the bachelor/bachelorette parties. I do not like strip clubs/strippers and would try to steer clear of my pals from giving me a party there.
What worries me is the bachelorette party. I've heard they have a reputation for acquiring out of hand and getting male strippers that seduce the girls. Girls say they go to get "their hands on something bigger" than the guy they are marrying has. I know I do not measure up to them or bodies but it would bang my confidence if my girlfriend went to one. Some folks would say that she should go and "have fun" but I would not be able to look at her the exact same following that. Some men and women might say that girls ought to go to them but I don't believe I could take it. What can I do to get over this feeling? I really feel inadequate for getting my girlfriend/wife stay away from those guys because they are greater than I am and would seduce her in methods I can't, just to maintain my mind clear from my "cheated on" past.
I don't feel all folks have to have a stripper for a rite of passage. I do not have "any craziness" for a stripper, so neither would she appropriate? If getting "it out of the system" is an excuse then does that mean I could cheat on my girlfriend just to get it out of my program? Did not believe so.
Jimmares.. I am 17
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Answer by Kittyone Kittyone
you dont worry about something from now thank you)
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